Showing posts with label Habits of happy couples. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Habits of happy couples. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Flirt Clothes That Are Sure To Make You Stand Out

man wearing sexy flirt clothes
Flirt clothes…what the heck are those? Well think of your flirt clothes as being those certain outfits you wear to help get you noticed by the opposite sex.
Now some people are always wearing flirty clothing, whether they’re off to the gym or heading to bed. Other people save their flirt clothing for special occasions.
Regardless of when and where you wear them, your clothes make a big impact on how others perceive you. Putting the right outfit together will make you feel more confident and look more appealing to the opposite sex.
Here are some basics to keep in mind when creating any ensemble.
Look Classy - Certain items of clothing are timeless. Investing in a nice leather or wool jacket will last years and won’t go out of style. A quality jacket may cost you a bit more, but it will go a long way in amping up your wardrobe.
Get the Right Fit - Make sure you’re wearing clothes that fit right. There’s nothing worse than investing in that perfect top, but having it fit too loose or too tight. Store mirrors can sometimes be deceiving, so you may want to get a second opinion to make sure you’ve got the right size.
Bust Out the Iron - Make sure you’re flirt clothes are clean and wrinkle-free. Not only do wrinkles look messy, but they give off the impression that you’re sloppy and careless.
Ditch the Glasses - Unless you’re going for the sophisticated (or nerdy) look, you may want to think twice about wearing glasses.
Eye contact is an incredibly powerful flirting tool, but it doesn’t always have the same effect when you’re using it through a set of specs. Try switching to contacts when you’re going out somewhere fancy.
Look Good From Bottom to Top - Shoes make a huge difference. For you guys out there, a lot of women will admit to checking out your shoes within the first minute of meeting you.
A classy black or brown pair of dress loafers will go a long way in making you look sharp. Be sure to keep them clean a well polished though. Remember, it’s often the minor details that will either make or break you.
And for you women, guys might not be into your shoes as much as you are, but one thing they will appreciate is the impact that a set of heels will have on your physique. Learning how to properly walk in a set of heels is must if plan on owning a pair.
That Special Little Something sexy woman wearing flirt clothing
If you follow the advice above, you should be well on your way to looking pretty damn good. But you don’t want to just settle for good…right. You want to turn some heads. And just how do you do that?
I recommend wearing one item or accessory that stands out. It can be anything…a cool ring, an interesting necklace, a colorful bracelet, etc.
Have it be an item that you’re not used to wearing. And make sure that it’s eye-catching. This will give your look a certain element of uniqueness.
More importantly, it will be an awesome tool to have when you’re flirting. The other person can use it to strike up a conversation with you, or to help keep a conversation going.
Think of this item as a tool to help other people flirt back with you.
Create Your Own Unique Style
Most people’s flirt clothing usually consist of things that they see in magazines or on TV. After all, these are the things that are “in style” for the season.
Now there’s nothing wrong with looking to the media to help you find a particular style you like, but I do recommend you take some time to discover your own sense of style as well.
Remember, you’re flirt clothes should make you stand out and give people a sense of who you are.
So be a little creative and try inventing your own unique outfits. You’ll be surprised at the number of compliments you get from having a bold sense of style.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Individual, Couples & Family Counselling

Candice Hague has been working with individuals, couples, and families for over 10 years.  Recognizing that you may need help is the first step to a more fulfilling and balanced life.  Don’t wait to be in “crisis” before seeking help. Counselling is a process that can assist others in overcoming challenges and an opportunity to deepen your understanding of self.

Is Counselling Confidential?

The services that you receive from Nirvana Counselling are confidential within the limits of the law and the ethics of the counselling profession unless a written consent has been signed by you. The only exceptions to this include:
  • Reporting of suspected child abuse or neglect
  • Responding to a medical emergency
  • Complying with a subpoena
  • Responding to a threat of harm to self or others

What is Clinical Counselling?

Clinical counselling is the use of clinical mental health counselling values, principles and methods for the purpose of assisting clients to understand their issues and concerns in order to enhance self-growth, personal effectiveness, interpersonal relations, life adjustments, spiritual growth, and mental health.  This may involve developing insight into, and/or learning to prevent and/or eliminate maladaptive behaviour or symptoms, in addition to the enhancement and strengthening of healthy coping styles and functional relationships with self and others. -Information Source: BCACC  ( www.bc-counsellors.org )

How can a Registered Clinical Counsellor help me?

We live in a complex world that sometimes doesn’t offer a great deal of time or opportunity to sort through personal issues.  A Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) can help you do just that. Counselling can assit you in achieving a better understanding of your issues and concerns in order to enhance your self-awareness, personal effectiveness, relationships, and your overall health and wellness. Registered Clinical Counsellors are qualified to work with individuals, couples and families dealing with many different issues.  Since most problems are never isolated to one area of a person’s life and tend to be complex, it is essential to draw on many different approaches.

CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK…CHANGE THE WAY YOU FEEL!

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Saturday, January 22, 2011

10 Habits of happy couples



10 Habits of happy couples
What does it take to be happy in a relationship? If you’re working to improve your marriage, here are a few habits of happy couples.




1. Go to bed at the same time
Remember the beginning of your relationship, when you couldn’t wait to go to bed with each other to make love? Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different times. They go to bed at the same time, even if one partner wakes up later to do things while their partner sleeps.



2. Cultivate common interests
After the passion settles down, it’s common to realise that you have few interests in common. But don’t minimise the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. At the same time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too dependent.



3. Walk hand in hand or side by side
Rather than one partner lagging or dragging behind the other, happy couples walk comfortably hand in hand or side by side. They know it’s more important to be with their partner than to see the sights along the way.



4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode
If and when they have a disagreement or argument, and if they can’t resolve it, happy couples default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and begrudging.



5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong

If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find something. If you look for what he or she does right, you can always find something, too. It all depends on what you want to look for. Happy couples accentuate the positive.



6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work
Our skin has a memory of “good touch” (loved), “bad touch” (abused) and “no touch” (neglected). Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed in the “good touch,” which can inoculate your spirit against anonymity in the world.



8. Say “Good night” every night, regardless of how you feel
This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship. It says that what you and your partner have is bigger than any single upsetting incident.



9. Do a “weather” check during the day
Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you’re more in sync when you connect after work. For instance, if your partner is having an awful day, it might be unreasonable to expect him or her to be enthusiastic about something good that happened to you.



10. Be proud to be seen with your partner

Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact - hand on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.