Do You Want to Attract Men Towards You

Whether you are single and want to get into a relationship or you just want to flirt with men, you need to attract them to you to meet your goal. It is mostly thought that women are experts in this field and attracting people to themselves come naturally to them. Whereas the fact is that this is nothing but a notion or a misconception.

Many women are not so good in this game of attraction or dating and hence need advice and guidance. So if you want to learn the tricks of attracting men to you, then read on for some useful tips.

First know and discover yourself. Discover your strongest points or your assets and flaunt them. If you have big eyes or long dark hair then highlight them and draw attention to them.
Always look good. This is not only vital but absolutely essential. Dress well, use good make up and look and smell fresh. Men are said to be superficial as they tend to go by looks. Whereas science has a different explanation as to why men choose their partners by looks. Whatever it may be, looks are to be given the top most priority when it is about attracting men and therefore do not ignore this point even by mistake.
Perfumes can play an important role in attracting men. Use a fragrance which is feminine, soft and yet a bit seductive.
Smile, look happy and confident. Smile is always effective in drawing people towards you. We all are drawn towards people who look happy and confident. Men are especially appreciative of confident women. So use these to your advantage.
Do not hesitate to express your individuality or your sense of freedom. Men love women with these qualities and will automatically be drawn towards you.
Make yourself mysterious to men. Let them keep guessing about you and never reveal yourself fully to them. The more you are able to generate curiosity about you in a man, the more he is drawn towards you.
Use your body language tactfully. Gain attention or create interest among men with the correct use of your body language. Apart from these, while speaking to men, listen to them and what they have to say. Take interest in their interests and laugh at their jokes, even if you may not find it worthy of it. Slight flirting is also a hit formula of attracting men.

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How to Get Through to the Opposite Sex

Do you ever feel your sweetie doesn’t understand what you’re saying? It could be a simple difference in gendercommunication styles.

What caused your last argument? Are the words you said the same ones your sweetie heard? It’s no secret that storms between women and men linger at the intersection of loving and living. You may find yourself asking, “Earth to sweetie, what must I do to get through to you?”

Here are 4 gender communication pitfalls with tips on how to avoid falling into them. While all men and women are not all the same, using just one of these tips the next time you disagree may reap relationship riches.

Pitfall 1: Men can separate sex from love, but women think that sex IS love.

A recent study found that a large percentage of women have sex for the sheer pleasure of it. Duh! But the study ignored the posturing of the genders AFTER sex occurs. Women ask me how they can push a guy towards permanence. The bonding hormone oxytocin, which gals have in far greater supply, drives women to bond with a man. But the male tortoise that tottered toward commitment now darts like a cheetah toward the cave. He feels invaded while she feels evaded. Hey guys, lighten up! The female black widow spider usually fails in her attempts to eat her mate after sex!!

Steve told Jackie he didn’t want to get serious. But since he was living at her home on weekends, she thought he would come around. Because Jackie kept pushing the issue, the couple ended up splitting for good.

My Advice: Yes, we know that talk is cheap, but if someone says the same thing to you over and over again, you need to listen! As my Gilda-Gram says, “If any partner feels s/he is in maximum security lockup, your relationship is doomed.” Sex is sex and nothing more — unless BOTH partners agree to change the script.

Pitfall 2: Men talk deals, women talk details.

Words have different purposes for the two genders. Women use them to solicit rapport, while men use them for gathering and disseminating information. In fact, men may accuse women of talking too much, but research shows that men actually talk more.

Lauren missed Fred after not seeing him for awhile. As soon as they got together again, she blabbed non-stop, describing every detail of the time they spent apart. While Lauren just wanted to include Fred in her life, his mind was screaming, “Damn! Does she ever shut up?” Unable to tolerate her constant chatter, Fred left Lauren in his rearview mirror. Lauren never knew why.

My Advice: Before pitching your message, assess your honey’s receptivity. Ladies, when your guy walks in and asks how your day was, ask him, “Do you want it in male talk or female talk?” Usually, he’ll choose the former, so offer a synopsis. Your feelings will remain intact while he goes off to unwind. Later, you can fill him in on any important details.

Pitfall 3: Women deliver “like-me” language, while men argue their points.

“Like-me” language preps the “nice girl” to ingratiate herself and avoid offense. Statements with a question added to the end (“The movie was good, wasn’t it?”) avoid issuing a judgment on the speaker’s behalf. Hedging phrases (such as “I think” or “kind of”) avoid imposing an opinion. In contrast, men blurt out their thoughts without subterfuge and tend to compete in one-upping each other.

Nice girl Traci was furious that each time she argued with Ralph, he insisted that if they broke up, he’d find someone else before she did. This was his aggressive repartee, a style guys customarily use without taking anything personally. After I explained to Traci that this was a gender distinction, not a slap in her proverbial face, she was able to laugh off Ralph’s competitive edge talk. Her new attitude softened all their future disagreements, and they’re now planning their wedding.

My Advice: Observe how the genders speak within themselves as a group. Know the stereotypes, honor the differences and laugh them off, just as Traci did.

Pitfall 4: Men want to fix women’s problems, but women just want to share.

When Marilyn brought her work problems home to Alan, he proceeded to tell her how to solve them. Unfortunately, all Marilyn wanted was to vent to someone with whom she felt “safe.” In my own relationship, I told my seasoned businessman boyfriend (whom I’ll call “Studly”) that I was looking to expand my consulting firm. Studly then escorted me to various booths at a trade show, introducing me to anyone who would listen. He’d begin by saying, “This young lady would like to…” as though I were a mute 10-year-old. “Hey,” I told him, “I’m an adult woman, I have a legitimate Ph.D., years of corporate consulting experience and I can SPEAK FOR MYSELF!” Studly thought he was “fixing” my dilemma and had acted with the best of intentions. He had no idea why I was so upset until I explained.

Ladies, know what you’re after before you unload. If you just want to vent, tell your partner that exactly. Guys, if your lady doesn’t tell you what she’d like your role to be, ASK HER before you provide solutions to the problem at hand. Women typically don’t want to take your directions any more than you like asking for them.

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Is Marriage Bad for Your Sex Life?

Wondering what's ailing your once rocking sex life post marriage? It could be the marriage itself. Yes, according to a recent survey, the very fact that they are married can take a toll on a couple's sex life. In the survey, conducted on 3,000 married people, it was found that their sex lives did not remain the same after a few years into the marriage.
Researchers found that though, initially, couples can expect to have sex more than four times a week, after three years of life as man and wife, most couples are lucky to have sex just once every seven days. Up to one third of the married people interviewed admitted that they no longer fancied their partner as much as they did in the early days and a whopping 43 per cent even claimed that their loved one had let themselves go.
It also emerged six out of ten couples believe marriage has completely ruined the excitement of having sex. Under half of all married people said their relationship with their partner is more that of friends than lovers. The poll shows 59 per cent of couples believe their sex life has worsened since marriage because they no longer make an effort with each other any more and a third no longer fancy their partner as much as they did in the early days. Unfortunately, eight in ten couples admitted to being in a sexual rut - having sex at the same time, in the same place and in the same positions every time they sleep together.
In fact, 79 per cent of people are happier getting a good night's sleep than making the effort to have spontaneous sex in the middle of the night. Two thirds of couples blamed their hectic lifestyle for their terrible sex life and 80 per cent claimed they were often too tired to bother about any 'action between the sheets' once the day was over. Seven in ten people also admitted that they might be inclined to make love more often if their partner made more of an effort romantically. "Unfortunately, while you can be deeply in love with someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them, it is also possible to want more from the relationship.
A partner might be supportive, funny, intelligent, and kind, but if they don't inspire confidence in the bedroom, or don't meet expectations sexually, life can be frustrating," a spokesman of the study was quoted saying. Dr Minnu R Bhonsle, psychotherapist and counsellor attributes the decline in couples sex lives to two basic factors - either emotional distancing or physical fatigue. "If it's a case of emotional distancing, it's mainly because of accumulated issues that have remained unresolved. Hence, the partner doesn't feel connected to the other and stops responding to the his/her overtures. As for physical fatigue it could be due to a variety of reasons - fatigue at work, tiredness trying to maintain a balance between work, home and kids.
As a result, fatigue overrides their sex life." "Most young people are seized with a wrong notion that sex life is different from marriage. In reality, sexual relationship is essential and a healthy part of a marriage. Sex needs commitment and connectivity and that is where most young people find themselves lacking the adequate energy or inclination," opines Dr Rajiv Anand, marriage counsellor. According to him, it is not the sexual act that loses novelty or attraction after marriage but the approach of the people involved. So what's the solution?
"If it's a case of physical fatigue, couples should engage in scheduled sex. They must plan weekend getaways or make arrangements to leave the child with a babysitter or relatives and plan a night out where they could probably get home early from work and then just concentrate on spending time with each other. If it's an issue of emotional distancing, communication is the only solution.
Couples need to talk things out with each other in a non-toxic way," says Dr Minnu. Dr Anjali Chhabria, psychiatrist and psychotherapist opines that it is more important to get down to the root cause of the issue than just search for quick fix solutions. "Sex is an important part of marriage and the lack of it could indicate issues in the marriage.
A declining sex life is a symptom, it's just the tip of the iceberg. One needs to find answers to why there is no sex? Is it because there is no chemistry in the relationship or is there no relationship at all? Are the partners too tired or stressed out? Does one partner feel that she or he is no longer attractive to the other? Is one's spouse attracted to someone else? If it's just boredom, couples need to make sex a priority. If they are too tired to have sex at night, do it in the morning. If lack of privacy is the issue, couple need to make time for themselves. Most importantly, couples need to tell each other what they want. Your partner is not a magician to magically figure out your wants and needs," she explains.

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Romantic Tips for Him

Finding ways to romance the man in your life can be a challenge. Much of the advice available on how to woo someone is geared towards romancing women. However, men enjoy receiving a little extra attention from their partners, too. In his best-selling book "1001 Ways To Be Romantic," Gregory Godek says, "Romance is about...making daily life with your lover a bit more special." With some creativity and thoughtful effort, you can show your husband or boyfriend how much he means to you.

Love Lists

Everyday for the month of his birthday, email your husband a list of five things you love about him. Be specific and focus on the qualities you admire most about him, such as his devotion to family or his integrity. Also, express appreciation for the small acts of kindness he does for you. For example, you might tell him how much you love it that he always scrapes the ice off of your windows or warms up your car for you on snowy mornings. Compliment his appearance, too. Your husband will never tire of hearing that find him attractive.

Customized Gifts

According to the Help Guide website, playful surprises are an important aspect of a successful relationship. When selecting a gift, you should choose something that reflects your partner's taste and personality. However, to turn a thoughtful gift into a romantic one, you should find ways to personalize it specifically for him, suggests Godek.

For example, you could give him a few bottles of his favorite wine with custom labels. Instead of picking up another bottle of whatever cologne he usually wears, create a customized scent. Also, for a really special occasion, give your man something that he has always wanted, but has never gotten for himself because he felt it was too extravagant or impractical. Let him know you think he is worth it.

Sexy Lingerie

Sexy lingerie is a good start, but it is also predictable. Try to do something unexpected with it. For example, you could play strip poker with your husband. He will enjoy unveiling you one article of clothing at a time.

For your anniversary or his birthday, you might also consider having a boudoir portrait of yourself made. Choose outfits that reflect something about him. For example, if he is a sports fan, wear one of his jerseys. Many women feel shy about provocative photo shoots, but an experienced photographer will accommodate your comfort level and do what she can to make the experience fun for you. Your husband will love receiving a private gift that shows off your sensual side.

Flirt

To keep the romance in your relationship hot, you should flirt with your partner, according to Dummies.com. Romance is about having fun and finding playful ways to enjoy one another. Touch him frequently during throughout the day. Send him a spicy text message or email. Catch his eye and give him a coy look from across the room. Let him catch you checking him out, then wink at him or blow him a kiss. Let him know by your words and your actions that you are crazy about him.

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Love Gifts for Men

A gift for your man doesn’t have to come in a neat little package tied with a bow. Think outside of the box. If you want to show your husband or boyfriend how much you love him, do something out of the ordinary. Love gifts are gifts from the heart. As you know love can be the gas,love can be the Organized,love may be the baseball,love may be the cinema,but nothing is better than the health,so give the love gifts about health.
Improve his diet. According to a study published in Obesity magazine, married people and young live-ins are more likely to become obese than people who remain single. Even the healthiest eaters can probably use more raw fruits and leafy green vegetables or swap out those all too prevalent Omega 3s for healthier Omega 6s. If you do some or all of the cooking, or even if you are the primary grocery shopper, slip in some better choices. You don’t even have to tell him. His heart will love you for it.

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Sending Your Love by Valentines GiftsSending Your Love by Valentines Gifts

Getting ready to start shopping for the woman that you love for Valentine’s Day? Not sure where to begin? Don’t worry because there are many, many Valentines Day gifts for her that she will be sure to love. These gifts range from the sweet and simple to the trendy and glamorous. You can find some unique gifts for any budget.
For many women it is important to buy a gift for their husbands or boyfriends even when they have very little money. Instead of spending over your budget, purchase cheap Valentine’s gifts for him.

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Flirting Lines

After my oodles of help to the women in the flirting arena, I received a lot of feedback from men asking me to help them out with flirting lines for men, So, well, here I am. Your wish is my command dear reader!! The article I wrote for the women was flirting lines for women.

Getting to the point, flirting is natural. It is an instinctive reaction. Like, when you see a really yummy looking pastry, you see if you can buy it. Similarly, you try to get the attention and attraction of someone you are attracted to. Seriously, the theory behind flirting is just that simple. But, who the heck wants to know the theory! Let's get down to the fun part, the flirting lines for men!!

Corny Flirting Lines for Men
These are a bit corny and cheeky. But, if a really cute guy uses them, girls find it hard to resist. It will make them smile (secretly, they will be laughing in their head). Once you accomplish making a girl laugh, you have her attention (this is not just booky stuff, it's true).

• Your father has to have been a gangster... Because you are like DYNAMITE
• Oh! I feel like Richard Gere... standing next to the Pretty Woman!
• I think something is wrong with my eyes... I cant seem to take them off of you!
• If you were a burger at McDonalds, you would be McGorgeous
• Girl, you must be tired. Because you've been running through my mind all day!
• So, does falling from heaven hurt?
• So, if I were Barney, would you make my night LEGENDARY?
• Are you always this pretty... or is this for my benefit?
• So, do I need to be your friend before I ask you out? Or can I take you out for dinner tomorrow?
• So... You come here often? (do not use this anywhere other than a club)
• I know what you're thinking... you want to give me your name and phone number! Right!

Well, these are the corniest that I have ever come across. But the flirting line men use to get women to top the corny charts has to be "Your place, or mine!". (do not use it, we women HATE it!)

Romantic Flirting Lines for Men
These flirting lines for boys are best when you are trying to sweep a woman off her feet. However, spoiler alert, you better make good use of flirting body language of men while you do this. More so, you need to be genuine. If they sense that you are not be genuine, you will have something else coming!

• You have the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen.
• Do you like walks on the beach? (yes) Care to join me for one?
• My heart skipped a beat when I first laid eyes on you
• You are the most beautiful angel I have ever seen.
• You know what.. I think God was showing off when he made you!
• If I asked you for a dance, would you say yes?
• The moon seems to have turned green from jealousy, I am sure it's the effect of your presence
• I do not want to seem too forward, but I already see us having a beautiful future together.
• If I were Edward Cullen... would you be my Bella?
• (This one is perfect when you are comforting a girl who you love, but is heart broken)There is no one in this world who is worth your tears, and when you find him, he wont make you cry!

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5 Things He’s Thinking Before He Kisses You

Would you like to know what he thinks before he kisses you? You will be really surprised.

• I am cool! I did it! Great! Fantastic! What a man I am!
• Breath control … Oh my God, when was the last time I checked my breathe …?
• What to do with my tongue? I don’t know the way she likes …
• Hope she wants this kiss the way I want it, I don’t like to be slapped in the face.
• I should close my eyes … Otherwise, she will think I am a freak …

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Why We Flirt: The Science of Sex

It’s so natural, we barely even notice we do it. Tilting a head to expose the neck, smiling or laughing at something that really wasn’t funny, moving closer to the person making unfunny jokes, mimicking their actions. Our body language is perhaps the most subtle expression of what we’re really thinking and feeling, and is a crucial component of the courting dance known as flirting.
Though cheesy pick-up lines abound, a lot is conveyed even before words are uttered. A prolonged gaze or arched eyebrow gives clues to the person across the bar that you’re interested without having to explicitly ask about his/her sign. Though the statistics differ, some attribute almost 80 percent of our first impressions to our stance and swagger. And because flirting helps both animals and humans find mates faster and easier, it is an evolutionary trait hard-wired in our brains. Mice twitch their noses at potential mates, colorful peacocks strut around for admiring peahens, and pigeons puff their chests to look buff. As much as we have moved on from mice and feathers, we do much of the same, for the exact same reasons.

Genetic Peacockery
Because flirting is an easy way for us to display our genes, mating potential, and interest, nature put a lot toward its success. This is one of the reasons why some males birds have exotic plumes, why elk carry hefty antlers (a sign of a healthy immune system), and why male fiddler crabs have such large claws. He waves his in the air, alerting females to his whereabouts, and signaling them to come closer for a better look at his burrow, colorful shell, and flashy claw.

Much in the same way, we’re physically programmed to indicate interest almost before we mentally have a say in it. Slight actions reveal a lot. Stance, eye movement, and gestures like leaning forward to talk to the person, or quick eyebrow raises are what scientists call contact engagement, signaling to the other mammal that you’re prepared for things to potentially get physical. Perhaps most importantly, these signals show that you’re not intending to dominate or flee. Or not just yet, anyhow.

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Flirt Clothes That Are Sure To Make You Stand Out

Flirt clothes…what the heck are those? Well think of your flirt clothes as being those certain outfits you wear to help get you noticed by the opposite sex.
Now some people are always wearing flirty clothing, whether they’re off to the gym or heading to bed. Other people save their flirt clothing for special occasions.
Regardless of when and where you wear them, your clothes make a big impact on how others perceive you. Putting the right outfit together will make you feel more confident and look more appealing to the opposite sex.
Here are some basics to keep in mind when creating any ensemble.
Look Classy - Certain items of clothing are timeless. Investing in a nice leather or wool jacket will last years and won’t go out of style. A quality jacket may cost you a bit more, but it will go a long way in amping up your wardrobe.
Get the Right Fit - Make sure you’re wearing clothes that fit right. There’s nothing worse than investing in that perfect top, but having it fit too loose or too tight. Store mirrors can sometimes be deceiving, so you may want to get a second opinion to make sure you’ve got the right size.
Bust Out the Iron - Make sure you’re flirt clothes are clean and wrinkle-free. Not only do wrinkles look messy, but they give off the impression that you’re sloppy and careless.
Ditch the Glasses - Unless you’re going for the sophisticated (or nerdy) look, you may want to think twice about wearing glasses.
Eye contact is an incredibly powerful flirting tool, but it doesn’t always have the same effect when you’re using it through a set of specs. Try switching to contacts when you’re going out somewhere fancy.
Look Good From Bottom to Top - Shoes make a huge difference. For you guys out there, a lot of women will admit to checking out your shoes within the first minute of meeting you.
A classy black or brown pair of dress loafers will go a long way in making you look sharp. Be sure to keep them clean a well polished though. Remember, it’s often the minor details that will either make or break you.
And for you women, guys might not be into your shoes as much as you are, but one thing they will appreciate is the impact that a set of heels will have on your physique. Learning how to properly walk in a set of heels is must if plan on owning a pair.
That Special Little Something
If you follow the advice above, you should be well on your way to looking pretty damn good. But you don’t want to just settle for good…right. You want to turn some heads. And just how do you do that?
I recommend wearing one item or accessory that stands out. It can be anything…a cool ring, an interesting necklace, a colorful bracelet, etc.
Have it be an item that you’re not used to wearing. And make sure that it’s eye-catching. This will give your look a certain element of uniqueness.
More importantly, it will be an awesome tool to have when you’re flirting. The other person can use it to strike up a conversation with you, or to help keep a conversation going.
Think of this item as a tool to help other people flirt back with you.
Create Your Own Unique Style
Most people’s flirt clothing usually consist of things that they see in magazines or on TV. After all, these are the things that are “in style” for the season.
Now there’s nothing wrong with looking to the media to help you find a particular style you like, but I do recommend you take some time to discover your own sense of style as well.
Remember, you’re flirt clothes should make you stand out and give people a sense of who you are.
So be a little creative and try inventing your own unique outfits. You’ll be surprised at the number of compliments you get from having a bold sense of style.

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Mastering The Art Of Eye Flirting

Out of all the different components of body language, eye flirting is undoubtedly the most important.
Things like posture and facial expressions are great, especially when it comes to picking up on clues if someone is interested in you. What these don’t give you though, is that deep connection you get from gazing into another person’s eyes.
In order to get good at eye flirting, you must first learn to get into the habit of making eye contact. The best way to do this is to set a goal.
For the next two weeks, commit to making eye contact with at least five people everyday. You’ll probably have to remind yourself of this goal a couple times throughout the day in order to make sure you’re following through.

After two weeks you’ll want to up the ante, by making eye contact with about ten people a day. The ultimate goal is to get to the point where you’re making and maintaining eye contact with everyone you’re interested in.
Once you’ve gotten good at this, you can start incorporating some advanced eye contact flirting techniques. Here are four forms of eye flirting that will be sure to send out a strong sexual vibe.
Side to Side Eye Contact: After gazing into the other person’s eyes for a while, shift your attention to just one of their eyes. For some reason, I prefer looking into the left eye when doing this.
If you think regular eye contact is effective, then this technique is like eye contact on steroids! By focusing on just one eye for a short period of time, you’re able to create an even more intense connection with the other person. It’s almost like you’re gazing into the other person, rather than simply looking at them.
Since this is such an intense technique, you should only use it for one of two seconds each time you use it. Holding it for any longer runs you the risk of making the other person feel uncomfortable.
The Body Scan: this eye flirting technique is a great way to help make your intentions clear. If you’ve ever worried about not sending out enough signs of attraction, then this is the tip for you.
After holding eye contact with the other person, smoothly and steadily scan their entire body down - all the way to their ankles and then back up to their eyes (almost like you’re blatantly checking the other person out). This technique should be done quickly - as in less than a second.
Doing this will allow your target to consciously or unconsciously know that you’re interested in them. If you’ve played your cards right, you’re boldness should pay off!
The Lip Look: This next eye contact flirting technique is a more subtle yet seductive version of the body scan. It’s an especially effective tip to use right before you’re about to kiss someone.
All you have to do is make eye contact, look down at their lips, very subtly wet your lips, and then look back into their eyes.
An important thing to keep in mind is to not go overboard when it comes to wetting your lips. In other words, don’t circle your lips with your tongue. Instead, simply pull your lips inside your mouth and moisten them. This will send out a clear signal that you’re ready to make things more intimate.
The Triangle: this technique is my favorite, simply because it allows you to combine a few different techniques together. After looking into the other person’s eyes:
1. Look into their left eye
2. Look down to their lips
3. Look up to their right eye
4. Resume regular eye contact with them
You can probably guess why this is called the triangle; you’re basically moving your eyes across their face in a triangular fashion.
Use these eye flirting tips as a way to make your intentions clear, while simultaneously escalating things to the next level.

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The Very Best Flirting Tips for Guys

Looking for the best flirting tips for guys? Well look no further. There’s a lot you need to know when it comes to talking to women. By following these top flirting tips for guys, you’ll make the process a lot easier and far smoother.
Approach
In order to get good at talking to women, your first step is going to involve approaching them.
Now most guys have a hard time with this because they suffer from approach anxiety. This is when you see a woman you’d like to talk to, but before you can go over there and start a conversation, you start thinking about all the things that could go wrong.
Maybe she already has a boyfriend, or what if she rejects you in front of everyone. ...these are the sort of thoughts that stop guys from taking action.
The easy way around this is to follow the three second rule. When you see a girl you want to talk to, you have three seconds to go over there and start a conversation with her.
This way, you don’t give yourself any time to think of an excuse not to talk to her.
Make a Good First Impression
A lot of guys worry about having the perfect opening line when they meet a woman. While it’s always nice to have something interesting to say, you should be more focused on how you present yourself.
You’ll want to make that sure that you’re dressed well and are well groomed. More importantly though, you’ll want to make sure you’re projecting the right voice tone and body language.
Women are masters at sizing a man up in seconds based on these two elements. Having confident, dominant body language and a loud, resonating voice will help make a great first impression.
Listen
One of the easiest flirting tips for guys is to simply listen more. When you’re in the middle of talking to a beautiful woman, it can be easy to retreat into your own head. The most common reason guys do this is because they’re trying to think of what to say next.
Women can usually tell when you’re lost in your own thoughts, and not paying attention to what they’re saying. So instead, try genuinely listening to what she’s saying.
Not only is it an attractive skill to possess, but it also makes your end of the conversation a lot easier. By listening to what she’s saying, you’ll be able to ask her to elaborate on certain things.
Like if she mentions that she enjoys traveling, you can ask here where she’s traveled too and what she did at those places.
By simply asking a few follow-up questions, you’ll be able to effortlessly keep the conversation going.
Be Nice, but not too Nice
A lot of guys get frustrated about the fact that women tend to be more attracted to guys who are jerks.
You see, jerks tend to have a lot of personality traits that women find appealing. They’re confident, self-assured and aren’t afraid to challenge a woman from time to time. The problem for most women though, is that jerks also tend to be selfish and insensitive.
It’s obviously important to be nice to women. But most guys tend to mistake being nice, with being a pushover. That’s why it’s important to strike the right balance. Treat her right, but don’t go putting her on a pedestal!
Use the Right Type of Humor
Most women say that the number one thing they look for in a guy is someone who can make them laugh. Now this doesn’t mean you should go around telling women knock knock jokes.
Instead you should use a certain type of humor. When it comes to flirting, the key is to use playful teasing. In fact, this is almost the very essence of flirting.
By using this type of humor, you’ll be able to make her laugh yet show a bit of edginess.
Close the Deal
Another extremely important flirting tip for guys is to be willing and able to close. The term closing ranges anywhere from getting a woman’s phone number all the way to getting her back to your place.
The sad thing is that a lot of guys don’t pull the trigger because they are too afraid of rejection. While it’s painful to get rejected, the last thing you want to do is shy away from moving forward with a woman.
In fact, the only thing worse than getting rejected, is the feeling of regret that comes from failing to take action. So remember your ABC’s...Always Be Closing!
Be Yourself
At the end of the day, women are most attracted to a guy who’s willing to be authentic. Using these flirting tips for guys should be a way to enhance your personality, not replace it. So be yourself...and use these tips to help be your best self!

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The Very Best Flirting Tips For Girls

Most women are used to hearing all the traditional flirting tips for girls. It seems like you can always find those in a magazine or your favorite talk show.

The problem with some of those tips though, is that they’re too generic. That’s why I’ve compiled these unique flirting tips for girls. These tips will teach you how to attract a guy, along with how to keep him interested in you.
applying the right flirting tips for girls Make The First Move

Believe it or not, some women still feel a little uncomfortable with the idea of making the first move. Usually, it’s because they think that guys aren’t attracted to women who make first contact.

Well, let me let you in on a little secret....men love it when women make the first move. There are two reasons why this works:

First, it shows us that you’re a confident and self-assured woman who isn’t afraid to go after what she wants. Those are some very attractive traits you’re displaying right off the bat.

Secondly, men sometimes hate being the ones who always have to strike up a conversation. When a women chooses to make the first move, it takes a lot of pressure off of the guy, which can lead to a much smoother conversation

Be Bold With Your Body Language

You can’t flirt well without applying some basic body language techniques. When it comes to flirting with men, there are several different body language techniques that you can use.

The most important ones though are eye contact and using open body language. What I mean by open body language, is making sure your arms are not crossed and that your body isn’t turned away from the guy you’re talking too. By not using open body language your basically telling a guy that you’re not interested in him.

Reach Out And Touch Someone

By far one of the simplest yet most effective flirting tips for girls is to touch the guy you’re flirting with. For some reason, when you touch a guy, it sends out a strong signal that you’re interested in him.

But if that’s not enough, it also has a way of making a guy feel more attracted towards you. A gentle touch on the arm is all it takes to send out a strong flirtatious vibe.

Laugh A Little

One of the greatest sounds a guy can hear is a woman’s laugh. It allows him to know that you’re enjoying his company and that you find him funny.

Now this doesn’t mean you should laugh at everything he says. After all, you don’t want to risk sounding fake. The best way around this is to help create more opportunities for the two of you to share a laugh.

You can easily do this by bringing up conversation topics that are funny. You might want to ask him about the best practical jokes he ever played, or the funniest thing he ever did when he was drunk.

Not only will this be a great way for you to laugh together, but it will also give you some interesting details about him.

Challenge Him

Sometimes being overly flirtatious with a guy can run you the risk of looking a little easy. When a guy starts to think that way about you, it’s almost like you’re flirting skills have backfired.

To avoid facing this problem, it’s important to challenge a guy from time to time. For example, if you disagree with something he says, don’t be afraid to let him know. Or try some advanced tactics like push-pull.

Put On The Right Outfit

Most flirting tips for girls, emphasize the importance of a woman's appearance. Sadly this has placed a lot of pressure on women to focus a lot on the way they look.

Sure, it’s important to put forth some effort in doing your hair and make-up and wearing the right outfit. But at the same time it’s important not to go overboard with this.

After all, dressing a certain way and wearing too much make-up is probably going to attract you the wrong sort of guy.

What I emphasize instead is to learn to develop your own style based on your type of personality. So if you’re an artsy type of girl, why not get creative with your wardrobe.

Or if you’re the sporty type, why not wear a small emblem of one of your favorite teams.

This will not only help you feel a lot more authentic, but it will tend to attract guys who share the same sort of interests as you.

Always Have the Better Answer

One of my favorite flirting tips for girls is to develop some banter between you and the person you’re talking too. This constant one-upping the other person is not only fun, but is also the best way to create attraction.

The key to getting good at this is to always have the better answer. In other words, you want to make sure you have a great comeback for whatever the other person says.

For example, if they say you’re trouble, you’re response would be that they’re just too innocent for you.

You’re goal is to playfully tease the other person, by incorporating some arrogant humor into the conversation. Usually, this sort of banters goes on back and forth for until someone finally gets the last word.

Be Yourself

I know I know....you’ve heard that a million times before. Well that’s because it’s true. You’re more likely to find someone you really hit it off with, when you remain true to yourself.

All the other flirting tips for girls are simply ways to help you show your best self!

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