Mastering The Art Of Eye Flirting

Out of all the different components of body language, eye flirting is undoubtedly the most important.
Things like posture and facial expressions are great, especially when it comes to picking up on clues if someone is interested in you. What these don’t give you though, is that deep connection you get from gazing into another person’s eyes.
In order to get good at eye flirting, you must first learn to get into the habit of making eye contact. The best way to do this is to set a goal.
For the next two weeks, commit to making eye contact with at least five people everyday. You’ll probably have to remind yourself of this goal a couple times throughout the day in order to make sure you’re following through.

After two weeks you’ll want to up the ante, by making eye contact with about ten people a day. The ultimate goal is to get to the point where you’re making and maintaining eye contact with everyone you’re interested in.
Once you’ve gotten good at this, you can start incorporating some advanced eye contact flirting techniques. Here are four forms of eye flirting that will be sure to send out a strong sexual vibe.
Side to Side Eye Contact: After gazing into the other person’s eyes for a while, shift your attention to just one of their eyes. For some reason, I prefer looking into the left eye when doing this.
If you think regular eye contact is effective, then this technique is like eye contact on steroids! By focusing on just one eye for a short period of time, you’re able to create an even more intense connection with the other person. It’s almost like you’re gazing into the other person, rather than simply looking at them.
Since this is such an intense technique, you should only use it for one of two seconds each time you use it. Holding it for any longer runs you the risk of making the other person feel uncomfortable.
The Body Scan: this eye flirting technique is a great way to help make your intentions clear. If you’ve ever worried about not sending out enough signs of attraction, then this is the tip for you.
After holding eye contact with the other person, smoothly and steadily scan their entire body down - all the way to their ankles and then back up to their eyes (almost like you’re blatantly checking the other person out). This technique should be done quickly - as in less than a second.
Doing this will allow your target to consciously or unconsciously know that you’re interested in them. If you’ve played your cards right, you’re boldness should pay off!
The Lip Look: This next eye contact flirting technique is a more subtle yet seductive version of the body scan. It’s an especially effective tip to use right before you’re about to kiss someone.
All you have to do is make eye contact, look down at their lips, very subtly wet your lips, and then look back into their eyes.
An important thing to keep in mind is to not go overboard when it comes to wetting your lips. In other words, don’t circle your lips with your tongue. Instead, simply pull your lips inside your mouth and moisten them. This will send out a clear signal that you’re ready to make things more intimate.
The Triangle: this technique is my favorite, simply because it allows you to combine a few different techniques together. After looking into the other person’s eyes:
1. Look into their left eye
2. Look down to their lips
3. Look up to their right eye
4. Resume regular eye contact with them
You can probably guess why this is called the triangle; you’re basically moving your eyes across their face in a triangular fashion.
Use these eye flirting tips as a way to make your intentions clear, while simultaneously escalating things to the next level.